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Thread started 07/20/15 11:17am

JoeTyler

Tomorrow is my first S&M experience ever...

I'm a bit nervous he smile

any tips ?

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Reply #1 posted 07/20/15 11:21am

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just be yourself

I don't want to get eaten alive
'cause you're so dangerous
No more hearts I can trust, you see
I don't want to get eaten alive
To be eaten alive
Eaten alive
I don't ever want to be
Eaten alive
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Reply #2 posted 07/20/15 12:11pm

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Just get your freak on!

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Reply #3 posted 07/20/15 1:02pm

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eek don't forget the universal safe word. it's klaatu barada nikto, i think

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Reply #4 posted 07/22/15 9:24am

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so how was it????

What did you do?

Did you take pics?????

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Reply #5 posted 07/22/15 9:43am

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What's the safe-word?

The safe-word is what?
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Reply #6 posted 07/22/15 10:03am

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Are you the top or bottom?

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Reply #7 posted 07/22/15 11:02am

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So what's the point of the thread if you're not going to come back and talk about your experience? That's about as exciting as someone saying they're going to 7-11.
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Reply #8 posted 07/22/15 11:46am

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morningsong said:

So what's the point of the thread if you're not going to come back and talk about your experience? That's about as exciting as someone saying they're going to 7-11.


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Reply #9 posted 07/22/15 4:53pm

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jeez, ok smile I was gonna tell it, I've been kind of busy today, and I have trouble sitting down anyway (not exactly what you're thinking, but close lol )

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First of all, it was a (sorry to some readers) hetero RPG S&M experience , RPG means RolePlaying; (night time) 7 people in total (4 women, 3 guys-including moi; youngest woman was about 27-30-probably, oldest woman like 50-55 (probably), youngest guy 30-probably moi-oldest guy like 55-60 (the main boss, mostly grey hair but tall and fit); 5 veterans and two "new people" : moi and the 27-30 yo woman

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If was there at all it's because I know one of the women who participated, and, in fact, she was the one who talked to me about this S&M thing and blah blah: nice people (both veterans and new faces), nice environment (no medieval-torture chamber shit), "safety word", condoms, no bullshit, no pics no video-100% privacy, the real thing; since I recently told her that I was thinking about doing some S&M, that I was curious about it, and blah blah she convinced me to do it ; and no, this woman is not the female boss with whom I had a (brief) affair (if you remember that thread lol ) Who is, then, this woman? Who cares; let's say I have interesting friends with interesting connections, lolololol, sordid for some, interesting for me evillol

So I said yes -ok-sounds good and she said ok next time you may able to join as a "new guy" (sounded low); about two weeks later I received a mail with all the instructions, safety word, norms, where to go, what to expect, be punctual, if you decide to back down please do tell us (very detailed mail, I liked it, looked professional, lol). One part I found obvious is that nobody "will ask you for your real name or any personal question" ...obvious and necessary, but I appreciated the fact that they wrote it down; the mail also mentioned the RPG part, it literally said "tip: use your imagination, improvise, listen to what others say, don't let us down" (the don't let us down part put some pressure on me)

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The xperience was done in the house of the 55-60 yo guy (a big and nice house, let me tell ya, and with air conditioning thank god!); I got there, knocked on the door, door opened, I was invited to enter, and then I was scared shitless because everyone was already there (I wasn't late at all), sitting on two semicircular white sofas (opposite each other), dressed up with "normal" clothes (quite conservative, in fact; I was wearing a red shirt-two buttons undone-and black trousers-shoes-underwear myself-plus my 9 yo silver watch)

I hated the fact that I was the LAST one to get there (more pressure for me) because the RPG started as soon as I sat on the sofa (no drinks), and it was a bit dull-awkward, let me tell ya: we were "acting" (playing) as executives (lol pfff lol) of an important firm (lololol, but I actually think the 55-60 yo guy earns big money every month confused ); there wasn't a script of any kind, so it was mostly an improvisation, by that I mean that it was the 55-60 yo guy who was "directing" the whole thing, dude seemed serious as hell about it (bet the mf was super-hard about being in control); the conversation soon turned about how "some of us" (basically the "new people") had made some gross mistakes, that the firm was suffering, that the firm was losing big money because of our mistakes and that something had to be done about it...the 55-60 yo guy was looking at me, I managed to mutter "I can take care of things, I can turn the ship around, just need more time" (ouch! lame) but the guy said, "No, you won't because you're a useless piece of shit"...

Ok, at that instant I had mixed feelings, because insults always surprise me, and then make me pissed (quickly) and I was also worried because I didn't feel aroused, not amused or whatever, I even thought (not seriously) about leaving, like some child out of his element. But suddenly (about two seconds later) I remembered that this was S&M, so insults are common (not the norm, but common) and HECK, the ladies looked FINE (three white, 1 black), so I decided to stay if only to check those bodies out, but I swear I was tired of the RPG...

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Little I knew that the RPG was going to end anyway, because suddenly the proper S&M began, and basically the new guys had to be "punished", in order to avoid being "fired from the firm" (sounds reasonable, right?)

So I was punished, yes: genitalia stuffed brutally in my mouth, face juiced, I was used as a cafe table (for about 30 min), I was ignored, then mocked, then ignored some more, then I was spanked in the ass, hard, ...didn't want to look like chicken, so I took it as a man, but damn it hurt , and for some reason, I had the image of Michael Fassbender in my mind during the whole process lol; then there was the part when we, the new people, had to punish each other; she decided to slap me sad , to spank me some more in an already red ass (God bless her neutral) AND to twist my nipples (I feared for them) while having an apple in my mouth (wtf? do I look like a piggy to you, bitch?), kinky brunette bitch was biting her lower lip while twisting them, pure lady nazi wtf mercy bitch, but I refused to mutter the safety word; anyway I took my revenge putting a dog collar around her neck, making her crawl and taking her for "a walk" all over the house, for about 30 min or less, sucking cock on her knees every now and then, harsh cockslapping in da face included (cloud9), the 55-60 yo boss following us and looking pleased and amused (the kinky mf); yes, perhaps a bit degrading, yes, but at least it didn't hurt lol, unlike the spanking and twisting confused (and no, I didn't force her to poop, not only because I despise scat, but the mail instructions said no scat THANK GOD)

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and that was pretty much it; hard-ons came and went several times; the only permament erection I got was when I actually had SEX with the "new" 27-30 old lady while the veterans were looking (awkward: first you slapped me, spanked me and twisted my nipples, then I made you crawl, then we fucked, pleased to meet you)

guess it wasn't a bad time because F-O-U-R HOURS flew in a heartbeat; I would have said the safety word only if someone had tried to kick my balls or hurt my glans (hell no confused confused ), so other than the nipple-twist and the last moments of the spanking, there wasn't anything truly unpleasant-challenging...and also, I got laid, so...

I rate the evening with a 4 out of 5; I don't plan on doing this anytime soon (not until Dec, at least), but the interesting part is that I'm not "new" anymore, so next time I'd be (slighty) more in control evillol

my advice? only do this with professionals or reliable veterans, too many psychos or assholes out there...

(btw, if there was an actual hidden camera recording things, well ...fuck , so be it lol)

[Edited 7/22/15 16:57pm]

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Reply #10 posted 07/23/15 8:49am

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Back in the org's glory days, the above post would have generated five additional pages of hilarious comments by now. This place really is dead. tombstone
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Reply #11 posted 07/23/15 10:52am

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sexton said:

Back in the org's glory days, the above post would have generated five additional pages of hilarious comments by now. This place really is dead. tombstone


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Reply #12 posted 07/23/15 10:54am

JoeTyler

^^four years ago, things were not as bad

I still remember this thread lol

http://prince.org/msg/100/366187

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Reply #13 posted 07/23/15 12:17pm

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RenHoek said:

sexton said:

Back in the org's glory days, the above post would have generated five additional pages of hilarious comments by now. This place really is dead. tombstone


Amen Brother... tombstone



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Reply #14 posted 07/23/15 12:40pm

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Really? Is that all anybody's going to say?



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Reply #15 posted 07/23/15 12:42pm

morningsong

Well all I got to say is, when you go for it, you go for it. Your first time, a group? No easing into it for you.

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Reply #16 posted 07/23/15 1:16pm

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Get more coverage with your health insurance

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Reply #17 posted 07/23/15 1:29pm

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Reply #18 posted 07/23/15 5:01pm

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eek did someone say spanking????

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[Edited 7/23/15 17:41pm]

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Reply #24 posted 07/23/15 6:02pm

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Chains and whips. thumbs . Sticks and stones Ma! break my bones Bill chains and Excite me

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Reply #29 posted 07/23/15 7:06pm

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eek eek

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