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Tomorrow is my first S&M experience ever... I'm a bit nervous he any tips ? ![]() | |
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so how was it???? What did you do? Did you take pics????? | |
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What's the safe-word? The safe-word is what? | |
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Are you the top or bottom? | |
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So what's the point of the thread if you're not going to come back and talk about your experience? That's about as exciting as someone saying they're going to 7-11. | |
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jeez, ok --- First of all, it was a (sorry to some readers) hetero RPG S&M experience , RPG means RolePlaying; (night time) 7 people in total (4 women, 3 guys-including moi; youngest woman was about 27-30-probably, oldest woman like 50-55 (probably), youngest guy 30-probably moi-oldest guy like 55-60 (the main boss, mostly grey hair but tall and fit); 5 veterans and two "new people" : moi and the 27-30 yo woman --- If was there at all it's because I know one of the women who participated, and, in fact, she was the one who talked to me about this S&M thing and blah blah: nice people (both veterans and new faces), nice environment (no medieval-torture chamber shit), "safety word", condoms, no bullshit, no pics no video-100% privacy, the real thing; since I recently told her that I was thinking about doing some S&M, that I was curious about it, and blah blah she convinced me to do it ; and no, this woman is not the female boss with whom I had a (brief) affair (if you remember that thread So I said yes -ok-sounds good and she said ok next time you may able to join as a "new guy" (sounded low); about two weeks later I received a mail with all the instructions, safety word, norms, where to go, what to expect, be punctual, if you decide to back down please do tell us (very detailed mail, I liked it, looked professional, lol). One part I found obvious is that nobody "will ask you for your real name or any personal question" ...obvious and necessary, but I appreciated the fact that they wrote it down; the mail also mentioned the RPG part, it literally said "tip: use your imagination, improvise, listen to what others say, don't let us down" (the don't let us down part put some pressure on me) --- The xperience was done in the house of the 55-60 yo guy (a big and nice house, let me tell ya, and with air conditioning thank god!); I got there, knocked on the door, door opened, I was invited to enter, and then I was scared shitless because everyone was already there (I wasn't late at all), sitting on two semicircular white sofas (opposite each other), dressed up with "normal" clothes (quite conservative, in fact; I was wearing a red shirt-two buttons undone-and black trousers-shoes-underwear myself-plus my 9 yo silver watch) I hated the fact that I was the LAST one to get there (more pressure for me) because the RPG started as soon as I sat on the sofa (no drinks), and it was a bit dull-awkward, let me tell ya: we were "acting" (playing) as executives (lol pfff lol) of an important firm (lololol, but I actually think the 55-60 yo guy earns big money every month Ok, at that instant I had mixed feelings, because insults always surprise me, and then make me pissed (quickly) and I was also worried because I didn't feel aroused, not amused or whatever, I even thought (not seriously) about leaving, like some child out of his element. But suddenly (about two seconds later) I remembered that this was S&M, so insults are common (not the norm, but common) and HECK, the ladies looked FINE (three white, 1 black), so I decided to stay if only to check those bodies out, but I swear I was tired of the RPG... --- Little I knew that the RPG was going to end anyway, because suddenly the proper S&M began, and basically the new guys had to be "punished", in order to avoid being "fired from the firm" (sounds reasonable, right?) So I was punished, yes: genitalia stuffed brutally in my mouth, face juiced, I was used as a cafe table (for about 30 min), I was ignored, then mocked, then ignored some more, then I was spanked in the ass, hard, ...didn't want to look like chicken, so I took it as a man, but damn it hurt , and for some reason, I had the image of Michael Fassbender in my mind during the whole process --- and that was pretty much it; hard-ons came and went several times; the only permament erection I got was when I actually had SEX with the "new" 27-30 old lady while the veterans were looking (awkward: first you slapped me, spanked me and twisted my nipples, then I made you crawl, then we fucked, pleased to meet you) guess it wasn't a bad time because F-O-U-R HOURS flew in a heartbeat; I would have said the safety word only if someone had tried to kick my balls or hurt my glans (hell no I rate the evening with a 4 out of 5; I don't plan on doing this anytime soon (not until Dec, at least), but the interesting part is that I'm not "new" anymore, so next time I'd be (slighty) more in control my advice? only do this with professionals or reliable veterans, too many psychos or assholes out there... (btw, if there was an actual hidden camera recording things, well ...fuck , so be it
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Back in the org's glory days, the above post would have generated five additional pages of hilarious comments by now. This place really is dead. ![]() | |
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^^four years ago, things were not as bad I still remember this thread http://prince.org/msg/100/366187 ![]() | |
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Really? Is that all anybody's going to say? | |
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Well all I got to say is, when you go for it, you go for it. Your first time, a group? No easing into it for you. | |
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"Music gives a soul to the universe, wings to the mind, flight to the imagination and life to everything." --Plato | |
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